Money…problem or problematic?

Stress that occurs because a couple isn’t earning enough money to cover expenses or desires, is often a topic of discussion among those who are having relationship problems. However, is the shortage of money really the root of what is going on or is it a symptom of something deeper? Too often, couples place more important upon the money and less importance upon communication and cooperation. Communicating with each other in a manner that promotes solutions without anger is often more beneficial and builds a stronger bond than keeping responsibilities separate and not talking about how to work through the times where money is tight. If this cannot be accomplished, there they may be deeper issues to uncover so that collaborating as a team about how to work with your income can be accomplished without resentment, fighting, arguments, or avoidance.

6 Responses to “Money…problem or problematic?”

  1. Mary says:

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  2. Jim says:

    So how do you get past all the stuff that makes us soooo angry?

  3. Thanks for posting about this, I would like to read more about this topic.

  4. Dr. Wise says:

    Jim, it’s a matter of commitment to the process. The first step is to acknowledge the problem and do so with love and understanding. This is probably the most difficult step because you both are entwined in your situation. Then, take each issue you want to discuss step by step and don’t move on until you are “complete” about the problem. This means you feel love and compassion present among the two of you.
    Remember, it’s a process, not a goal and some issues take longer than others. It’s a matter of how committed each of you are to work through them.

    **remember, there is always an opportunity to seek therapy and have a third party help you through it****

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